Using Deliberate Attraction
to Create What you Desire

Deliberate Attraction, What is it?

Deliberate Attraction affects everything in your life and the lives of those around you. It is similar to gravity, it is always there, it is working in your life right now. You probably have heard Deliberate Attraction stated in many different ways:

“Like attracts Like”

“Thoughts held in mind produce those in kind”

“Cause and effect”, “What you focus on you attract”

“Whatever you think about either positive or negative, you attract”

“Birds of a feather, flock together”

How does it work?

Deliberate Attraction is based on the thoughts and feelings that you hold at all times. They may be thoughts about the past, observations of something in your present or day dreaming or thinking about something in your future. You could be complaining about what you don’t have or what you don’t want. The thoughts that you are focused in the PRESENT are creating a vibration in you and you are attracting those things in your life that create a similar vibration.

Now remember, you may not be doing this deliberately or consciously, but only you have the power to attract what comes into your life. If you are focusing on something, whether positively or negatively, you are attracting it, even if by default.

Here’s an example. If I ask you not to think about the color of your car, what happens? You think about the color of your car. The universe works in the same way. When you declare:

“I don’t want clients that don't pay on time”

“I don’t want to get behind on my bills”

“I don’t want any more credit card debt”

“I don’t want to live from paycheck to paycheck”

The universe responds and provides more:

·clients that don't pay on time
·bills that aren't paid
·credit card debt
·living paycheck to paycheck

Now, for the science behind it

Everything that exists vibrates at a subatomic level and your thoughts and feelings are no different - they have a vibratory frequency.

The barometer for your vibrations is your emotions and feelings. Whenever you feel and have emotion about something, you create a vibration for it and that vibrational frequency- like a radio transmitter, draws to you those things that vibrate at the same frequency.

If you give your attention to the negative things in your life and focus on what you don’t have, instead of what you do want by talking about it and complaining about it, then you feel the feelings of frustration, overwhelm, worry and fear, sadness. You are now vibrating at the level of those feelings and you will attract things that are a match to that vibration….those things that make you feel more frustration, overwhelm, worry, fear, sadness.

The more you are a match to that frequency, the stronger the vibration that you are transmitting and the more you attract at that frequency.

The Bottom line…. you get what you think about and what you feel, whether you want it or not.

How do You use Deliberate Attraction to Create What You Desire?

Get Access to one of my favorite tools, the Creating Clarity Tool. This tool will help you to get clear on what you desire and begin to focus on it, thereby attracting it to you. 

Estelle Gibson is a CPA, TED Speaker, International Best Selling Author and Holistic Financial Coach. With over 40 years of professional experience in finance, purchasing and management she’s worked with individuals and companies, from small privately owned businesses to Fortune 500 corporations, in diverse industries.

With almost 20 years as a Holistic Financial Coach, she’s helled women, couples and entrepreneurs that are ready for a new experience with money after a life changing experience (divorce, marriage, career change, retirement, empty nest) rebuild their lives financially and emotionally. She’s committed to empowering her clients and students to have financial freedom, so they have the power to choose to live their dreams, and use their gifts and talents to make a difference in the world.