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Spending Consciously this Holiday Season

Thanksgiving has come and gone and the holiday season is now underway. During this time of year many people have a tendency to overspend, exceeding what they can reasonably afford.


How does this happen?

Many times we get caught up in the festivities of the season and have a great time buying gifts, entertaining, visiting family and friends and end up starting the new year with credit card debt that we aren’t prepared to face.

You may be underestimating how much money you are spending during the holidays because there are extra costs and incidentals that you don’t spend any other time of year – the favorite cookies, cakes, candy, that special meal or activity you engage in.

Marketing is also in in full swing – displays, commercials and advertisements, all geared to sell you on the newest, greatest item to put on your list or to buy for your loved ones.


This can be a time of year when expectations run high and emotions are ramped up and if you if you aren’t aware and prepared, you can get caught up in the energy of the season and end up spending a lot more than you intended to.


Here are 5 SMART Steps to help you spend consciously this season

1. S-Spending Patterns - take a look at what you’ve spent in past years. This can be an eye opening exercise and give you a realistic estimate of what to expect this year.

2. M - Make a holiday spending plan – List the main categories of spending and set limits for what you’ll spend this year.

  • Gifts
  • Food
  • Entertaining
  • Travel
  • Decorations
  • Holiday activities

3. A - Adopt a Cash Only Policy - Give your credit cards a Holiday! Once you create your spending plan and set your spending limits, adopt a cash only policy. Make a decision to purchase items using only cash or debit cards. Decide on a percentage of your total spending or a total amount that you will purchase with cash.

4. R - Reduce your Spending - Find ways to cut down on spending

  • Give personalized instead of expensive gifts – buy based on sentiment rather than dollar value
  • Encourage potluck entertaining with family and friends to cut down on entertaining costs
  • Plan activities with family and friends that have little or no cost – community activities, volunteering opportunities – ways to spend time with family and friends in the spirit of the season
  • Make gifts instead of purchasing them
  • Limit you’re the number of people on your gift giving list
  • Give Personal Gift Certificates – create gift certificates for services or that you can provide. Examples: babysitting, pet sitting, pet walking, cooking a meal, running an errand for a new mom or elderly person, driving for a car pool, etc.

5. T – Tell Your Family and Friends - make sure you clearly communicate with your family and friends. If you are used to participating in gift exchanges and you’ve decided to make changes in your level of spending, let your family and friends know so that you aren’t pressured into making last minute, impulse purchases that you haven’t planned for.


I’ve created this Holiday Spending Checklist to help you take the 5 SMART Steps to spend consciously this Season:



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Coach Estelle is the coach to call if you are ready to eliminate your limiting beliefs, get into action and Achieve Your Financial Dreams! With over 35 years as CPA working in Finance, Purchasing and Management she has worked with individuals and companies ranging in size from small privately owned businesses to Fortune 500 companies in various industries.

In addition, with over 15 years as a Church Leader and Holistic Financial and Business Coach, she has worked with individuals, churches and organizations to:

  • Create financial freedom by having a plan and process that works for them and their life
    • Move beyond the limiting beliefs that stop them
    • Align their values, vision and mission statements with goals and action steps
    • Realize their unique gifts and talents and create the future that they desire
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